about where we are and where we are going. The last couple of months has been very surprising. I had reached the point in late April/early May after certain facts were discovered...where I felt I no longer cared. How and why we've even come back to this point, I don't know. But I feel like this has been somewhat of the easy part. Things really haven't been discussed, except in the most general sense and when she's been drunk. It has been made known to me through these "drunk conversations" that our being together is still possible, but I need to get my shit together. Now how in the hell we would actually go about doing that? I have no idea. I've barely been able to take any baby steps down here. I have no facts, no research, no hard data, but I would tend to think the odds are against us. It's already been almost 13 months since we lost the house and almost a year since I was gone from there for good. And I still say there are a few things that bothered me about the way things went down. I still have no admission from her that wanting to keep that stupid POS was about 80-90 percent of the reason this all happened. Did my unemployment play a part? Of course. But a whole hell of a lot less than she's willing to admit. And I say that everything that has happened since then (that took me awhile to discover) has done nothing to dissuade me at all.
And now it's a whole new ballgame. With the exception of not having her own "place", Shelly's about to be in a much better position financially, vehicle-wise, etc. I have no idea if she's going to contribute to utilities, etc there - but she's going to be doing much better.
There are things...and then there's things. With this next school year already known...where do we go from here? And how in the hell would we go about it? I just don't know. And I've still got my own issues
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