Finally.

Well, gee.  As of Sunday, April 10, 2016, we are finally completely over.  3.5 years after the cheating was discovered.  Approximately 2.5 years after separation.  9 months since I really figured out there was never going to be anything but cheating and lying but somehow found yet another inexplicable reason for hanging on.  Roughly 3 months after I found her POF profile.  It's been a steady march downhill.  I...am never going to say I'm happy that my marriage is over, but considering the circumstances, I am glad the bullshit is finally over.  It's way past time.  The next red letter date in our marriage will be actually FILING for divorce (hopefully this week) and, after 60 days...the day our divorce becomes final and legally completes what Shelly started so long ago (sometime around June 15).