I Seriously Don't Know

My latest tactic (ignore)...well, it remains to be seen how long this will last and/or what the effect will be, if any.  It stems from my ongoing anger and total disagreement with her on everything.  I feel like she has an agenda which includes not having anything to do with me, yet somehow remaining married to me.  What this means, I have no idea.  I just know that every day I spend apart from them means one more day that I am not in the loop/anybody's mind/whatever and one day closer to just being forgotten entirely.  And it means whatever I do now or in the future means that it will have little to no effect on "us".