Tuesday, September 18, 2012

On Another Note...

I'm just kind of scared...I could have just as well have continued the last post.  I know me - sometimes I will keep things inside for awhile.  Then, especially if I think I'm doing "good" (whatever that entails)...what's to say that one night I'm horny and what to have sex with my wife, but she's with someone else?  I will need to keep my mouth shut and be a good boy.  There are other things... but the thing I guess I need to understand is that there are some ground rules.  I'm not sure where she wants to go with that.  I think I might like to know if she's going somewhere where she's going to be doing something...I hope I don't react badly the first time it happens.  I'm just scared.  I know I have a temper, I'm scared.  And I don't really want to admit to these fears (even though Shelly knows them well and has seen them, obviously)lest I prove unable to accomodate certain terms/blah blah blah

I think I just need to calm down.  I think (I hope, at least) that she gives me every opportunity to take care of my business, so to speak and to become a number one priority.  What happens, though, when I think I've been doing an excellent job but it just isn't good enough?  That, perhaps is the wrong question.  I need to be doing the best job possible, but understanding it's not a race.  I don't know - it's all brand new.

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