Well, Well, Well

You know,  I probably could have thought of dozens of ways or things we would have  really ended up divorced over, but not this way.  Of course, what it's related to overall - yes.  Realistically speaking, I'm pretty sure I was not wrong to be concerned about it.  I guess what I was really stupid about was thinking this shit would ever change.  That's a pretty tough call, though - for someone in my situation.  I'm sure many would disagree with me.  Mostly, I figure it's my own fault for not only putting myself in a position where they were few if any options and not trying to come up with something, anything at all as at least viable "leave" options.  I remember thinking about it a few times and thinking how disastrous it would be for me at that point, even if I had a job.  Or money saved...etc.  That is very true - but unless you want to die, you don't have very many options.